As a Neurodivergent mum with three Neurodiverse boys, I know how hard daily life can feel. Supporting yourself is tough. Supporting your children at the same time can feel overwhelming. You work hard to make sure they get the understanding, help, and adjustments they need. You try to keep routines steady and emotions calm. All the while, you do everything you can to avoid burning out.
Then menopause arrives and brings a whole new set of challenges. The strategies you relied on start to slip away. Skills that once felt solid begin to fail. You may even worry that you’re facing early-onset dementia. It’s confusing and frightening. Many Neurodivergent women experience the same struggles, and you are not alone. There are ways to navigate this stage with support and hope.
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A new chapter, old walls, and why I started over: welcome to How Felicity Finds
In a personal account of renovating a Victorian farmhouse, Fay reflects on her family’s journey navigating ADHD, autism, and menopause. She shares insights on embracing the chaos of life changes while fostering community through her platform, ADHD Menopause and Me. Updates on the renovation and rural life experiences will be…
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ADHD Jobs – What Suits Us Best?
I originally wrote this post back in April 2023, and I can’t believe how much has happened in 3 small years, and how I’m pretty much back to square one again. Back in 2023, I was looking at senior school places for Sam and possibly full-time work for me. Little…
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Intrusive Thoughts – What Are They and Why Do We Get Them
Intrusive thoughts are a common symptom of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and ADHD. However, they can also be triggered by menopause.
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The Complex Trio: How ADHD, Autism, and Menopause Impact Sleep
Menopause often causes sleep disruptions, which can be exacerbated by ADHD and autism. Hormonal changes, hyperarousal, and sensory sensitivities create a challenging sleep environment. Establishing a consistent sleep routine, managing symptoms, and utilizing supportive products can improve sleep quality. Understanding these interconnections is crucial for better well-being.
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Jobs for People with ADHD
Approximately 3-4% of UK adults may have ADHD, with diagnosis rates improving but still hindered by long waiting lists. Many women remain undiagnosed due to misconceptions about ADHD symptoms. Neurodiversity offers valuable skills in the workplace, leading to job suggestions that align with ADHD strengths, enhancing career satisfaction.
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ADHD, Autism and Transition
Transitions pose challenges for individuals with ADHD and Autism Spectrum Condition. Both conditions affect executive functioning, making it difficult to shift between activities. Strategies like advance preparation, breaking tasks into smaller steps, and providing sensory support can assist in easing transitions. Understanding these difficulties can foster better coping mechanisms for…