Products I Love Fay Stephenson Products for neurodivergent women UK (1)

This page is exactly what it says it is — the products I actually use, genuinely believe in, and would recommend to a friend without hesitation.

Life at How Felicity Finds involves a Victorian farmhouse renovation, an AuDHD brain in perimenopause, three neurodivergent boys, and a village in North Yorkshire that requires a decent pair of wellies at all times. The products on this page have all earned their place in that life.

Some of these links are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you purchase through them, at no extra cost to you. I only include products I have personally used and would recommend, regardless. My honest opinion is the whole point.


Managing an AuDHD brain through a house renovation, a family, a rebrand, and perimenopause requires tools. Actual, practical, genuine tools. These are the ones that have made a measurable difference to my daily life.

Perimenopause and AuDHD overlap in ways that are genuinely difficult to unpick — the hormonal layer underneath everything else adds a dimension that most wellness content simply doesn’t account for. The products in this section are the ones that have helped me manage that intersection honestly.

Renovating a Grade II listed Victorian farmhouse means every product decision involves a conversation between what’s modern and practical and what’s sympathetic to a building that has been standing since the 1800s. The products and brands in this section have all made it through that filter.

Rural Life - products and services in and around Thornton Le Dale

Moving to a North Yorkshire village comes with its own particular product requirements. These are the finds that have made rural life at Thornton-le-Dale genuinely better — from the practical to the lovely.

Family Life - products for neurodivergent families

Three neurodiverse boys, a Grade II farmhouse, and a village in North Yorkshire. The products in this section are the ones that have genuinely helped our family navigate daily life — from routines and sensory needs to the practicalities of a household where everyone’s brain works a little differently.


This page is updated regularly as I find new things worth sharing. If you’ve found something through How Felicity Finds that has genuinely helped you, I’d love to hear about it — drop me a message on Instagram @how_felicity_finds or via email at fay@howfelicityfinds.co.uk

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